Simple. Not Easy Being excellent is not hard. In fact, it’s really fairly simple. It’s just not easy. You have to train yourself to be excellent because it doesn’t just happen. Those who are excellent, are so, not because they are smarter or more talented than you...
The Old Leader There was a day when command and control leaders flourished and were successful. The workers they managed were doing physical labor where brawn was the asset. The worker’s physical strength was most important and extrinsic motivations (instilling fear;...
The Moment Have you ever wondered why some people are able to confront a problem or stressful situation with calm assurance? They don’t seem to react like others who become intense and anxious. Why is that? They have learned to step outside the moment. The Ability...
Self-Regulation Self-regulation is a most difficult discipline to establish because it requires an inordinate amount of motivation and cognitive energy. Focused attention, deliberate action and resisting automatic responses is draining. And yet your ability to...
No One Likes It Don’t you hate it when you have to hold someone accountable? Or worse, when you are being held accountable? It’s not pleasant on either side of the table. That’s why accountability should be the second option. Most Need It Much has...
The Dreaded Call You answer a call from a client, who begins with, “I want to talk to you about your bill.” What is your response to fee complaints? Your Emotional Response Does your stomach begin to churn? Do you feel dread? Fear? Become angry? We usually have an...