
1 min readRituals For Results
by Guy Gage | January 15, 2017 | Business
I’m not suggesting you paint your face and do your lucky dance, but I am suggesting you develop a brief ritual that has relevance to your performance. For instance, how about:
• Visualizing yourself finishing the situation as a winner and saying: “That was a great conversation, as difficult as it was.”
• Calming your mind with positive and energizing thoughts: [Deep breath] I’m prepared and ready to go.
• Reciting an inspirational quote, prayer or literary passage: “I can’t change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination.”
• Giving yourself a good “talking to” that you are capable and competent: STOP! You do this every month and you survived. Now get going!
For me, I really dislike and get stressed over the basic bookkeeping tasks that are required on a weekly and monthly basis. Not my thing and I do as little as necessary. So my routine is to set a time on my calendar to get everything ready: organize receipts, download bank data, etc. When completed, I stop, even if I feel like I’m on a roll and want to continue. Instead, I wait for the next day or two and schedule the actual execution of tasks. When I do this, things go so much smoother, I’m not overwhelmed and I don’t avoid or procrastinate. When I don’t do this, I’m a disorganized mess.
Any time you experience anxiety or dread, like before a presentation, preparing for a difficult conversation or engaging in an undesirable task, a ritual will focus your attention and your execution will improve. The only thing to do now is to develop your routine and stick with it.
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