1 min read“I Wish” or “I’m Glad?”
by Guy Gage | February 26, 2017 | Business
There is another way to know how well you did with your choices, but unfortunately, it’s after the fact. A time will come when you will reap the benefits or consequences of your choices and will make themselves known by your response. One evokes regret; the other, relief.
Any time you say, “I wish I had…” you know you chose a diversion option that kept you from achieving what was ultimately wanted.
I wish I …
…passed my exam when I was younger.
…asked more questions at the beginning.
…made that call earlier instead of delaying.
…held my tongue and was more careful with what I said.
On the other hand, when you find yourself saying, “I’m glad I…” you know you chose options that got you to where you wanted to be.
I’m glad I…
…explained what I really wanted.
…took advantage of the opportunities given to me.
…reviewed my work before giving it to my client.
…stayed with it to the end.
This week, when you encounter certain situations, ask yourself if you will one day say “I wish I had” or I’m glad I did?” By projecting your choices into the future, you force clear thinking.
Read Related Blogs:
The Last Phase
The Month If you haven’t looked up lately, you may not realize that you are in the midst of National Stress Awareness Month. How appropriate. Being a high-performer, you are no stranger to long hours, a heavy workload and looming due dates, that can add up to...
Professionals Finish Strong
Other Professions When considering professional athletes, it's evident that each of them prepares differently depending on their sport. However, there's a common element among them—they all prepare for the end of their game or race. For instance, American football...
Everyone Wants To Be Happy
The Day International Day of Happiness came and went on March 20. Did you celebrate? Or were you too busy? Or worse, did you miss it altogether? I’m assuming that you, like most, were unaware of it. Since everyone wants to be happy, let’s revisit Happiness Day and see...